Dear Parish Family, One of the most difficult things to express to someone who has suffered a personal loss is that of empathy. Have you ever wanted to provide words of comfort, only to wonder “how did that come out of my mouth?” We cannot ever truly know what are the feelings of another’s interior world. What can I say or do to show my compassion? The word compassion comes from the Latin word misericordia, meaning “suffering with”. In the case of a death – these words said simply and with sincerity may give comfort. “I am sorry for your loss. I wish there were words to take away your pain. Please know that I am here for you. Remember God is with you in this difficult time of grief and sorrow.” St Mother Teresa said “if only we have eyes to see… let there be kindness in your face, in your eyes, in your smile, in the warmth of your greeting. Always have a cheerful smile. Don’t only give your care, but give your heart, as well.” She is only one of a number of our saints who have shown us the way to share in the feelings of others especially during their distress and isolation. St Benedict Joseph Labre’s who in today’s world probably suffered from mental Illness, lives on through his compassionate examples of sharing with the homeless community. John Carroll University in Cleveland began the Labre project several years ago as a way to cook food, provide needed items and pray with the homeless community. This group emphasizes the need to form a relationship with these people. Isn’t this participation one of having the ability to imagine oneself in this condition. True empathy! Lord, I pray that my heart will become an instrument of your mercy, Show me the way that I lack empathy and compassion. Bring me healing, that I may share with others. Amen. Mary Jo